BDSM KNOWLEDGE TEST 2 (ADVANCED)

Please Read The Questions Carefully And The Answers Carefully Some Might Be A Little Tricky ”HAVE FUN” :-))

1) ”FEMINIZATION” Is The Term For

A) People Becoming A Transvestite

B) A Man To Be Dressed And Often Made Up As A Female Either Voluntary Or Under Duress

C) A Woamn Making Herself Up As A ”FEMALE FATALE”

2) At A Play Party A Sub/Slave May Be Touched By Anyone Unless Their Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress Disagrees

A) Wrong

B) Correct

3) ”MUMMIFICATION” Is The Term For

A) Adoring Love To The Mother (Also Known As OEDIPUS COMPLEX)

B) A Mummy Fetish Already Practiced In Ancient Egypt

C) A Form Of Bondage Where The Sub/Slave Is Wrapped  Up More Or Less Completely

 

4) Sounding Play Is

A) To Make Your Sub/Slave Whine Like A Child

B) A Form Of Male Urethal Play (Also Called Cock Stuffing)

C) A Form Of BDSM Play Where The Sub/Slave Is Forced To Make Sounds

 

5) Karada Is

A) A Japanese Term For A FullBody/Net Bondage

B) The Japanese Term For Breast Bondage

C) The Japanese Term For An Asymmetric Bondage

 

6) Which Of The Following Terms Do Not Belong Here

A)TOP

B) MASTER

C)ACTIVE

D)  DOMINATE

E) PRO-DOMME

 

7) What Means The Abbreviation For CS?

A) Cat Sex (PET PLAY)

B) Clinic Ses

C) Cold Sex) Also Called Sex With Ice)

 

8) A Violet Wand Is

A) A Tool Used For Electro Stimulation

B) A Tool For Removing Pubic Hair

C) A Light Source To Illuminate A Dungeon With Obscure Light

 

9) TPE Means

A) Total Power Experience

B) Total Power Exchange

C) Trust Power Evolation

 

10)  SSCF Is The Abbreiation For

A) Sub,Society,Commitee And Friends

B)Safe,Sarcastic,Consensual Fun

C) Safe,Sane,Consensual Fun

 

11) Corporal Punishment Is

A) Having A Sub/Slave Punished By A Military Person

B) A Form Of Vigorous Spanking

C) Tthe Tterm Of BDSM Military Play

 

12) Cupping/Suction Play Is

A) A Form Of Medical Play

B) Suction Of The Skin To Produce Hematoma/Bruises

C) A Form Of Bondage Play Where The Sub/Slave Is Completely Wrapped In A Vaccuum Latex Bag

 

~SLAVE_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BDSM KNOWLEDGE TEST

The Following Quiz Contains Questions  About Different BDSM Topics,With This Test You Can Check Your BDSM Knowledge.I Will Be Posting The BDSM Advanced Quiz Tomorrow.

                                                           Good Luck!

A) D/S IS THE ABBREVIATION FOR

B) Deaf Subs

C) Domination And Submission

D) Durable Susupension

 

2)  I STAY CLOSE TO THE ”PLAYERS” AT A PLAY PARTY TO BA ABLE TO SEE EVERYTHING IN DETAIL

A)YES

B)NO

3) A FLOGGER IS

A) A Tool To Make Whipped Cream

B) A Whip Made Of Several Thongs

C) A Special Riding Crop

 

4) DURING A BONDAGE SCENE/SESSION I HAVE TO MAKE SURE

A) Circulation Of The Blood And Reparation Are Always Unhindered

B) The Bondage Is Really Tight

C) The Bound Person Is Unable To Escape

 

5) THE LEATHER PRIDE FLAG WAS FIRST INTRODUCED

A) 1984 At A Black Rose Munch

B) 1989 At The Mr.Leather Contest In Chicago

C) 1992 At A Guns And Roses Concert

 

6) ”RIMMING” IS

A) A Varient Of Anal Fisting

b) Another Word For Anal Penetration

C) The Stimulation Of The Anus With The Tongue

 

7) HIV-VIRUS IS NOT TRANSMITTED BY

A) Contact With HIV Positive People

B) By The Bite Of A Tick

C) By Direct Contact With Blood Or Semen

 

8) WHEN CONDUCTING BONDAGE ON A SUB/SLAVE THE MASTER/MISTRESS SHOULD MAKE SURE THE ROPE

A)Runs Over The Inner Side Of The Joints Because They Are Less Sensitive

B) Does Not Run Over The Inner Side Of The Joints Because They Are Very Sensitive

 

9) I CAN ALWAYS LEAVE THE ROOM TO INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THE SCENE/SESSION IF I HAVE TIED SOMEONE UP VERY WELL

A) No,The Person Can Fall And Injure Themselves Or Have Psychic Problems

B) Yes! Because Nothing Can Happen,Tthe Sub/Slave Is Unabke To Move

 

10) ”TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM” MEANS

A) The Bottom Tries To Spank The Top

B) If The Top ”SWITCHES”” E.G Changes Roles And Becomes  Bottom

C) An Attempt Of The Bottom To Manipulate The Top

 

11) A BDSM MUNCH IS

A) A Meeting Only For BDSM People

B) An Open More Or Less Regular Meeting Of People Interested In BDSM

C) An Open Meeting For Baggering.Demolition,Sandblasting Machinists (BDSM)

 

12) S.S.C IS THE ABBREVIATION FOR

A)Sub,Society Commitee

B) Safe,Sane,Consensual

C0 Safe,Sarcastic,Consensual

 

13) A ROLE PLAY IS WHERE A PERSON TAKES THE ROLE OF A CAT,DOG ORPONY IS CALLED

A) PETTING

B) Pet Play

C) Pony Training

 

14) ANOTHER WORD FOR ”TOP” IS

A) Activation

B) Active

C) Dom/Domme

 

15) DRESS CODE IS

A) A Regulation That All Females Have To Wear A Dress

B) A Regulation To Wear Rubber Or Latex

C) A Regulation Which Was Agreed Upon As A Basis For How To Dress At A Event

 

16) ENEMA IS

A) The Medical Term For Suffocation

B) The Medical Term For Running Fluids Into  The Intestine

C) The Medical Term For Play Involving Urine

 

17) THE BEST CANDLES FOR WAX PLAY ARE

A) Flavored Candles

B) Beeswax Candles

C) Parafin Candles

 

18) THE INTERNATIONAL SAFE WORD (CODE WORD) IS

A)STOP!

B) SOS!

C) MAYDAY!

D) HELP!

 

19) THE TERM BONDAGE INCLUDES

A) Fixation Using Rope And Other Material

B) Body Decoration Using Ropes And Other Material

C) Fixation And Body Decoration Using Ropes And Other Material

 

20) PRINCE ALBERT IS

A) A Piercing For Men

B) The Inventor Of Tattoo Art

C) A Special Piercing Needle

D) A Famous S/M Person From England

 

21) Branding Is Another  Term For 

A) Wax Play

B) The Attatchment Of A Permanent Sign With A Hot Iron

 

I Hope You Enjoy Taking This Quiz,Please Feel Free To Copy This

 

 ~SLAVE_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE DESPERATE SUB/SLAVE

These Are The Flip Side Of A WANNABE Dominate.The People Who Are So Desperate To Find A Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress That They Will Stick Anyone Into That Slot. Upon Learning That Someone Is A Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress The Desperate Sub/Slave Immediately Assumes That This Person Will Automatically Want To Dominate Them And Will Run Up To Anyone They See Who Even Remotely Looks The Least Little Dominate With ”OH MASTER I AM DESPERATE TO SERVE YOU I NEED A MASTER LIKE YOU” In Some Extreme Cases These People Cross The Line From Annoying To Out Right  Self Destructive As They Will Sometimes Abandon Even Basic Concerns For SAFETY! And Self Preservation In Their Attempts To Find Someone,Anyone To Dominate Them.Fortunately Desperate Sub’s/Slave’s Are Rare And Can Be Spotted From A Mile Away.Unfortunately Desperate Sub’s/Slave’s Occasionally Become Statistics

HINT:The Relationship Between A Dom/Domme/Sub And Master/Mistress/Slave Is A Partnership.Even When It Is A Transient Partnership,Like At Play Parties,It is Still A Partnership.Don’t Go Pledging Your Submission And Obedience To Someone Until After You Have Determined That He/She Is Interested In You And For God’s Sake Don’t Go Pledge Your Submission And Obedience To Someone You Don’t Know Or To Everyone You Meet Who Seems The Least Bit Interested In You.Dom’s/Domme’s  Master’s/Mistresse’s Are People Not Fantasy Fullfillment Objects And Every Now And Then A Person Who Calls Him/Herself A Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress Isn’t Really A Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress At All But A Predator Who Sees You As Prey. Getting To Know Someone Before You Submit To Him/Her Is A Very Good Strategy To Avoid Becoming A Statistic.

~SLAVE_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

 

 

 

 

PUNISHMENT IDEAS

You Are Probably Asking Yourself ”WHY IS A SLAVE POSTING PUNISHMENT IDEAS WHEN HER MASTER SHOULD BE POSTING THEM”?

Well Since I Am A Slave,I Have Had More Then My Share Of Punishments Over The 10 Years I Have Been With Master So I Thought I Would Share Some Types Of Punishments I Have Had So New Master/’s/Mistresse’s Could Get Some Ideas. Feel Free To Copy This If You Would Like And Modify It To Suit Your Relationship

1) SPECIFIC UNPLEASANT CHORE
This Can Include Things Such As Cleaning The Stove,Blinds And Windows,Scrubbing The Floor With A Toothbrush,Detailing The CarETC The Master/Mistress Can Make A List Of Chores And Rotate Through Them To Avoid Re-Cleaning A Recently Cleaned Item. Chores Assigned AsPunishments Should Not Include Chores That Are Part Of The Slave’s Normal Duties.It Is Important To Distinquish Normal Chores From ”PUNISHMENT CHORES” Or The Slave May Start To View All Chores As Punishment.

2) SLEEPING ON THE FLOOR (OR SOMEWHERE OTHER THEN NORMAL SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS)
This Punishment Can Be Effective For Dealing With A Slave That Has Become Too ”VANILLA” (Non-BDSM) In Manner Because Of Social Conditioning.This Punishment Tends To Stress The Position Of The Slave Relative To The Master/Mistress

3) STANDING IN A CORNER
This Is An Old Standard.It Gives The Slave Time To Think About The Infraction.The Length Of Time Can Vary From A Few Minutes To An Hour Or More.I Suggest That The Master/Mistress Try This Punishment For Themselves To Get A Sense Of How Difficult This Punishment May Or May Not Be For The Length Of Time In Question

4) WRITING ASSIGNMENTS
This Punishment Is Helpful When The Master/Mistress Wants The Slave To Tthink About Or Research A Subject.I Recommend That This Punishment Be Used Intermitttenly Rather Then Regularly To Keep The Act Of Writingt From Taking On A Negative Connotation.

5) KNEELING ON A HARD SURFACE
This Is A Very Classic Punishment That Combines Giving The Slave Time To Think About The Infraction With Mild Physical Discomfort.If The Length Of Time To Kneel Will Exceed 20 Minutes I Recommend That A Full 5 Minute Break Be Given.Kneeling Too Long On A Hard Surface Can Cause Nerve Damage.It Is Also Good To Keep In Mind That Some Slave’s May Not Be Able To Kneel 20 Minutes (Which Includes Me) Because Of Physical Considerations.It MayBe That Some Slave’s Need To Do A Cycle Of 10 Minutes Of Kneeling 5 Minutes Rest

6) FOOD RESTRICTIONS
Obviously Some Common Sense Is Required With Using Food Restrictions As A Punishment.Being Sent To Bed Without Dinner Is Certainly Not Going To Cause A Healthy Slave Any Harm.However, Denying A Diabetic Food After They Took Theit Insulin Could Result In Death.I Suggest To Deny The Slave Sweets For A Period Of Time (Days/Weeks) As A Punishment

7) RESTRICTING USE OF COMPUTER.TV PRIVILEGES ETC
Restrictions Of Recreational Access To Things Such As The Computer Or TV Can Be Useful Motivators When They Can Be Enforced.The Restriction Can Be Total Where The Slave Is Not Allowed Any Access To The Items Or It Can Be Limited To A Certain Amount Of Time.There Is A Wide Range Of Options Under This Heading

8) SENDING THE SLAVE TO A ROOM BY THEMSELVES
This One Generally Speaks For Itself.It Gives Time For Calming Down And For Reflecting.This Is Often A Good Choice When The Master/Mistress Wants To Avoid Adding Stress To A Situation

9) PUBLIC APOLOGY
Apologizing In A Public Forum Stresses Humility.The Master/Mistress Must Carefully Consider The Reaction Of Those Who Are Going To Hear The Apology

10) LECTURE
A Good Old Fashioned Lecture Can Be An Effective Punishment.The Lecture Should Include What Specifically Was Wrong With The Salve’s Behavior And Why It Was Wrong. If A Slave Is Required To Maintain A Physically Stressful Position During The Lecture Then The Master/Mistress Must Also Keep In Mind Cautions Associated With The Physical Position Such As Time Limits

It Is My Hope At The Very least These Ideas Have Provided Some Thoughts For Consideration On The Topic Of Punishment As It Applies To A M/s Relationship

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN (Real Life)

CHOOSING THE RIGHT MASTER

You Are A Slave,You Have Read Everything You Could Get Your Hands On,And Talked To Anyone Who Would Offer Advice.Now It’s Time To Choose Your Master.I Can Only And Counsel You Regarding A Fulltime 24/7 Relationship As That Is My Only Experience.However,Some Of What I Have To Say Can Also Be Applied To Parttime As Well. Choose Carefully,Choose Wisely.This Is Your Life,Your Heart,Your Mind And Only You Can Make Sure You End Up In A Relationship That Best Suits YOU!

~THE FIRST STEP~

Get Comfy In Your Favorite Chair In A Quiet Room With A Pen And Paper. Take A Deep Breath And Calm Your Mind.Dig Deep Really THINK! About All Your Past Relationships,What Type Of Men Did You Choose? Did Those Choices Work For You? Make A List On The Paper Of All The Traits That Men You Previously Chose Possessed.Could He Hold A Job? Was He Quick To ANGER? Did He Make You Feel Safe? Did He Satisfy Your Needs? Write Everything Down That Pops Into Your Mind EVERYTHING!

~SECOND STEP~

This Is About Need VS Want. I Want To Be Rich And Never Work Again And Live The Life Of Luxury,Well Don’t We All? *smiles* Ask Yourself Would Having That Truly Fullfill You And Satisfy Your Needs? I Wrote Down After Digging Deep And Seeing Why My Past Relationships Did Not Satisfy Me And Why They Didn’t Work.. I NEED To Feel Safe,I NEED To Know That The Man/Master In My Life Will Do Everything In His Power To Stop Any Harm From Coming To Me.I NEED! Security.I NEED To Know I Will Not Be Living On In My Car And Begging On Street Corners For Food. I Cannot Be Happy Without These Things. What Can You NOT! Live Without? Not Be Happy Without? Write It Down,Every Word,Leave Nothing Out

~THIRD STEP~

What Traits Must Your Master Have That Will Satisfy Those Needs? Only You Can Answer This And You MUST! Answer It To Ensure You Choose The Right Master. Pay No Attention To What You Think Anyone Will Think About Your List.This Is Your Life Not Their Life.You Have A Right To Happiness. I Made Such A List And I Never Faltered From It. I Knew What Kind Of Man/Master Would Make Me Happy And What Kind Of Man/Master I Could Be Happy To Serve.I Was Patient,I Met Many Master’s And Rejected Them All.I Would Rather Be Alone Than Settle For Less Then I Wanted And Was Looking For.2 Years Later,Which Was 10 Years Ago *smiles* When I Least Expected It There He Was.YES! Over The 2 Years I Was Searching For A Master My List Was Modified Every Now And Then As I Discovered More About My Needs.Your List May Change As Well As You Learn More About Yourself.It Is My Hope That You Find The Same Happiness That I Have Found.

~PUTTING IT INTO ACTION~

Remember,That You Have The Right To Be Choosey.You Have The Right To Ask Questions And Take Your Time In Getting To Know Someone BEFORE! They Can Expect To Dominate You. It Seems Like Some People Take More Time Choosing A New Vehicle Than Choosing Someone To Share Their Life With.Compose Some Questions To Ask That Will Identify A Master Who Can Fullfill Your Needs And Don’t Be Shy About Asking.Interview Them And Be As Through As Possible NOW WRITE THAT LIST! *smiles*

 

 

 

 

 

WANNABE DOMINATE’S MALE AND FEMALE SAME APPLYS TO A MASTER AND MISTRESS

You Can Find These People All Over The Internet And They Are Not All Men.(I DESPISE WANNABES MALE AND FEMALE THEY GIVE THE ONES LIKE MYSELF AND OTHERS WHO ACTUALLY ARE INTO BDSM A BAD NAME) These People Appear To Be Equal Opportunity Offenders And I Have Encountered As Many Women As Men Who Fall Into This Role.These Are The Ones Who Believe That Because They Consider Themselves ”DOMINATE” The Rest Of The World Should Too. Many Of Them Are Often Poorly Socialized As Well. Which Is Quite A Double Whammy.You Can Spot Them Right Away.They Are The Ones Who Upon Learning That Someone Is A Sub/Slave Immediately DEMAND! That The Sub/Slave OBEY Them,They Are The Ones Who Upon A Conversation With A Sub/Slave Will Say ” YOU WILL ADDRESS ME AS MASTER/MISTRESS AND YOU WILL LEARN TO WORSHIP ME”They Seem To See Sub’s/Slave’s As Commodities Not As People And Begin Every Encounter With The Idea That Every Sub/Slave In The World Will Submit To Them And Obey Them Because Hey! They Are Dominate Right? WRONG!!

HINT: RESPECT! Is Earned Not Given Or Automatic.If You Want A Sub/Slave To Respect You,First Prove That You Deserve It.The People You See In The BDSM Community And The People You See At Play Parties Who COMMAND Wide Spread Respect ”THEY HAVE EARNED IT” And By The Way Just Because Someone Is A Sub/Slave Does Not Have Any Obligation To Submit And Obey You If You Don’t Even Know This Person’s Name And Have Established Any Kind Of Relationship What So Ever.Sub’s/Slave’s Exist For More Than Your Own Fantasy Fullfillment.

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

RECOMMENDATIONS FOR AFTERCARE FROM A SCENE/SESSION

1) Learn What You Like And What You Need In Terms Of Aftercare.Pay Simular Attention To The Needs Of Your Partner,Include Discussion Of Aftercare In Your Pre-Scene Negotiation.What You Need,What You Like,How Much

2) Leave Time After A Scene/Session To Be With Your Partner 15-30 Minutes Is A Decent Estimate,But Your Partner May Need More,Or May Need Less.If You Have A 1 Hour Play Window Bringing The Play To A Close At About 45 Minutes Leaving 15 Minutes For Aftercare Is Probably Appropriate.

3) Prepare To Move From The More Polarized Roles Of Play Top/Dom/Domme  Sub/Slave/Bottom Into More Equal Roles Of Mutual Friendship,Nurtuering And Respect

4) Touch,Hold,Cuddle,Talk,Bathe Together,Shower,Sleep

5) Express Satisfaction ( Or At Least Gratitude After A Scene/Session)

6) Offer Water To Drink Or Fruit Juice For A Little Post Scene Pick Me Up

7) Deal Carefully With A Broken Scene,Try To Take Care Of Whatever Fences That Need Mending

8) Sub’s/Slave’s/Bottom’s Remember To Do Your Part In Providing Aftercare For Your Top Dom/Domme Master/Mistress

9) Next Day/Week Follow Up ( To Antisipate And Deal With The Morning After Effect) A Phone Call.Email,Personal Note Or Visit Is Always A Good Idea To Express Friendship,Gratitude,Concern And How Your Partner Is Mending. It Will Reassure The Bottom/Sub/Slave And Make You Look Like A Responsible Mature  Top/Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress

10) Ask Your Partner To Write About The Scene/Session As A Basis Of Later Discussion Or An Activity In It’s Own Right

11) Make Affirmative Truth Your Goal.Don’t Lie,But Express Genuine Gratitude For What You Have Shared

12) Try To Establish How Your Partner Is Feeling

13) Prepare And Maintain An Aftercare Toy Bag Containing A Blanket,Some Non-Parishable Items In Case Your Partner Get’s Hungry Water Fruit Juice Stuffed Animal (Or Rabbit Fur Or Soft Flogger) Stories To Read Out Loud,Snacks (Especially Your Partner’s Favorite)

14) And Lastly,Always Be Ready To Change Your Approaches If Your Aftercare Does Not Feel Like It Is Working

In This Short Over View  Hopefully I Have Given You Some Aftercare Ideas To Work With. Why It Is Important And What The Costs Are For Doing It Wrong.Both Receiving And Giving Really Is One Of The Lovelier Parts Of The Scene/Session

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

 

 

REWARD AND PUNISHMENT

This Point Is Where Many M/s Relationships Fail.Over Punishment For Minor Infractions,Non Acknowledged Good Deeds And Ignoring Blatant Wrong Action Cause The Affinity In The Relationship To Break Down. The Rules Of Master/Mistress And Slave Are Fairly Rigid.The Duties Well Understood.When A Master/Mistress Does Not Punish Major Infractions Such As ”DISOBEDIENCE”And ”DISRESPECT” Or Ignores Correct Action By The Slave The Agreements Made At The Beginning Of The Relationship Are Broken. It Is Here A Master/Mistress Sows His/Her True Colors.The Master/Mistress Should Be In Control Not Only Of His/Her Slave But Themselves As Well. At The Beginning Of A M/s Relationship The Master/Mistress And Slave May Agree On A Long List Of Correct And Incorrect Actions But If The Master/Mistress Does Not Remember Them The Slave Is ”GETTING OVER” On The Master/Mistress And I The Process Losing Respect For The Master’s/Mistresse’s Power.It Would Be Better To Have Only A Few Rules At The Start Then As Time Progresses Expand Them As The Relationship Grows.Over Correcting Is Also Poor.If The Master/Mistress Is Cruel Or Vicious The Slave Will Only Do What Is Required Out Of Fear Of Punishment.Over Time The Slave Will Have No Desire To Please The Master/Mistress And He/She Will Realize They Have No Real Control Over The Slave

Punishment Is A Tool To Correct Wrong Or No Action By The Slave.It Should NEVER! Be Done In ANGER! This Is A Very Important Point.When You Punish In Anger Real Injury Can Occur,Safewords Are Nullified And Limits Do Not Exist.This Is A Very Dangerous Situation.The Master/Mistress Who Punishes In Anger Is Moving Int The Area Of ABUSE! In A M/s Relationship The Master/Mistress Cares About The Feelings Of The Slave. It Is Very Difficult To Have Empathy When You Are Angry. Pain Is Not The End All And Be All Of A M/s Relationship.It Is Just One More Tool At The Disposal Of The Master/Mistress To Guarantee The Rules Are Complied With.Punishment Does Not Even Have To Include Pain. Movement Restrictive Bondage,Humiliation,Harsh Words Or Even A Look Can Punish The Slave. Privileges Can Be Removed Such As Not Being Allowed To Sit On The Furniture Or Forcing The Slave To Sleep On The Floor Or In A Cage.There Are Many Ways To Punish Incorrect Actions.Save The Severe Punishments For Major Infractions.Punishment Is Always Followed By Reward,When The Slave Corrects The Infraction The Slave Must Be Allowed To Make Up The Damage And Then It Is Forgiven And Forgotten.

Rewards Show The Slave That The Master/Mistress Is Pleased.It Is A Tangible Show Of Love And Caring From The Master./Mistress For A Correct Action.This Is The True Power Of A Master/Mistress. The Reward Can Be A Kiss,A Caress,Flowers A Short Note,A Romantic Dinner Or Even A Long Love Making Session. Rewards Given To The Slave Shows That The Master/Mistress Is Thinking Of Them And Cares For Their Wellbeing. It Acknowledges Their Proper Behavior And Reinforces It. This Is How The Master/Mistress Creates In The Slave Willingness To Please Him/Her.A Happy Slave Will Do Anything To Ensure The Happiness Of The Master/Mistress And Will Avoid Actions That Disappoint.

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

SAFEWORDS

If You Are A Dom/Domme  Master/Mistress And Let’s Say For Instance You Are Spanking Your Sub/Slave And He/She Is Shouting ”NO! STOP!” How Do You Know Whether He/She Actually Mean ”STOP” Or Whether They Are Having Fun And Actually Mean ”MORE” I Recommend The ”TRAFFIC LIGHT SYSTEM” Of Safe Words (Or Finger Signals If You Are Using Gags) Which Allow Safe Play While Still Ensuring Enjoyment For You And Your Sub/Slave

”GREEN” (Or 1 Finger Held Up) Means ”GO AHEAD” (This Is Good If You Just Want To ”CHECK UP” On Your Sub/Slave To Make Sure He/She Is Alright)

”YELLOW” (Or 2 Fingers Held Up0Means ”PROCEED WITH CAUTION AS YOU ARE GETTING CLOSE TO A LIMIT)

”RED” (Or3 Fingers Held Up) Means ”STOP” THINGS HAVE GONE A BIT TO FAR

”RED.RED.RED” (Or 5 Fingers Held Up) Means ”EMERGENCY STOP” FOR INSTANCE YOUR SUB/SLAVE IS TIED AND HE/SHE HAS GOT A CRAMP

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)

 

 

 

THREE PRINCIPLES OF USE IN INTERNAL ENSLAVEMENT (BDSM)

This Topic Describes Three General Principles Of Use In Internal Enslavement.

1) DO NO HARM

2) KNOW YOUR SLAVE

3) BUILD ON FOUNDATIONS

 

~DO NOT HARM~

Clearly Harm Is A Relative Concept.However,A Master/Mistress Must Consider The Possible Consequences Of His/Her Actions To Avoid Unwanted Effects.And By ”HARM”I Mean Unwanted Long Lasting Damage To The Mind And Body In Particular.Do Not Underestimate The Psychological Damage That Unpredictable Behavior Or Severe Punishments Can Produce,All The Way From An Inhibiting Nerverousness Around Certain Objects To Full Blown Traumatisation Since These Can Impede And Reverse TheProcess.

 

~KNOW YOUR SLAVE~

A Master/Mistress Needs Information To Manage Any Complex System And Psyche Of A Developing Slave.The Proper Study For A Master/Mistress Is His/Her Slave. Practices Such As The Keeping Of A Slave Journal Or Regular Face To Face Debreifing Sessions Are Manisfestations Of This Principle.They Attempt To Gain Access To The Slave’s Inner Life Which Is Usually A Private World In Vanilla(Non_BDSM) People And Is Often Remarkable Different To What The Master/Mistress Might Expect.The Evolving History Of A Slave’s Inner World Is The Slave’sEnslavement And To Manage It Successfully The Master/Mistress Must Become Them Slave’s Prophet,Teacher And Leader.

~BUILD ON FOUNDATIONS~

More Factual Knowledge And Expertise Such As Position Training Is Only The Surface Expression Of Service And Obedience.If It Is Skin Deep The Master’s/Mistresse’s Possession Of The Slave Is No More Than Skin Deep.It Is True That Superficial Training Using The Rational Mind Of The Slave Plays An Important Part In The Deeper Emotional Changes We Seek But They Are Two Distinct Layers. It Is Hard Work Creating Beliefs And Attitudes From Scratch Since These Emotional States Are Built Over Time,But ItIs These Emotional States Which We Are Seeking To Grow And Guide In The Process Of Eternal Enslavement.The Process Of Eternal Enslavement Is By Finding What Is There Already That Can Be Used And Expanded And The Work Of The Master/Mistress Can Be Done More Easily And More Naturally In A Way Suited To Where The Slave Actually Is

~CONCLUSION~

In Summery,No Adult Human Is A Blank Slate.Everything A Master/Mistress Does To A Slave Is In Context Of The Inner Self Produced By His/Her History.By Studying The Slave And Building On And Adapting What Is Already There The Master/Mistress Can Benefit From The Current Reality Of The Slave’s State Rather Than Fighting Against It,With This Solid Foundation The Slave Can Grow Naturally,Guided By His/Her Master’s/Mistresse’s Requirements And The Slave’s Service Can Be Molded To Suit The Requirements Of The Master/Mistress With External Training Which Is Formed Rather Than Blind.

~SLUT_TO_MASTER_JOHN~ (Real Life)